Hello – what a great question!
It’s a little difficult to answer without knowing a little more about you but here’s what I would say based on a few assumptions about a 37 year old mother of 3:
- I am assuming you want to lose some weight – perhaps 10 or 20 pounds
- I am assuming you want to be more physically fit (stronger, more shapely, leaner, tighter)
- I am assuming you are not on any particular kind of diet
Step 1 - you need to start at the beginning. Exercise is a learned skill. Unless you’re a fitness professional you don’t have that skill. You will need to enlist the services of a Personal Trainer. It’s possibly the best investment you will ever make.
Step 2 – go slow. It took a while to get this way; it will take a while to undo it. You probably haven’t done much exercise in a long time. Don’t go for broke. Try for 3 days a week, 1 hour a day, moderate intensity for a few months. On 1 day do an hour of cardio exercise. On 2 other days do some kind of strength exercises for an hour each day. Your personal trainer can assess specifically what you need and get you on the right program. If you can’t get to a gym or can’t afford one, get some workout DVD’s (for example Jillian Michaels has some really good ones) and start working with those. Ramp up to 5 days a week, 2 days cardio and 3 days of strength exercises for one hour gradually increasing weight & intensity.
Step 3 – Clean up your diet. This is where most of us go wrong. Diet is a HUGE contributor to fitness, much more so than exercise. I repeat: diet is a huge contributor to fitness, much more so than exercise. This is too big of a topic for one question but I would encourage you to read more on my website (www.dietfitnessdiva.com) or check into my book on this subject (Diet Myths Busted: Food Facts not Nutrition Fiction). A few general guidelines are:
- Learn to read labels on food
- Cut down on sugars of all kinds especially sugary drinks of all kinds (pop, juice)
- Cut down and eventually stop eating processed foods
- Beware of snacking – most of us eat many more calories than we realize
- Start a food journal – again, most of us eat many more calories than we realize
- You CANNOT out train a bad diet
- Allow at least 2 months to start noticing changes
Thanks for writing and write back in two months to let me know how it’s going.